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Back Where I Started

by Tim Adams ~ August 12th, 2008

My 73-year old mom is like a lot of parents from her generation. She still lives in the same house where she raised her kids, the only house she’s ever owned. It’s the same house she’s called home since October of 1964.

But, the neighborhood where my mom put down her roots is a very different place today than what it was 44 years ago. When I was growing up there, I don’t remember anyone who rented rather than owned their home – it’s always been a working class neighborhood, but during my formative years it was a stable and secure place to live.

Today the neighborhood is probably one third to one half renters – very few of the families that had kids who were my peers are still around and transience has become one of the defining characteristics of what was once a modest but solid neighborhood.

Back in the day my friends and I did engage in some occasional pranks that usually involved water balloons or eggs. But today there are the constant reminders of gang activity - the paved drainage ditch that divides her street and the street signs and yard fences in the area are regular targets for tagging – one of the ways gangs stake a claim to their turf.

A few weeks ago, my mom asked me to take a look at a spot on the side of her house where the paint was flaking off – she’d just had the house painted a little over a year ago, so that sort of wear seemed to be premature.

When I went over to look at the area she was concerned about, I wasn’t sure what to make of it, at first glance. The paint was coming off, but it was in small spots sprayed in a circular pattern and confined to a small area near one of the front windows. As I looked closer I could see small silver bb’s embedded in the spots on the siding where the paint was coming off.

Then I realized what had happened - my mom’s house had been hit by a shotgun blast, most likely fired from a passing car.

When I called the police the first officer who arrived confirmed my suspicions. A report was taken and later a crime scene team arrived to take photographs. As the team was doing its work I had a long conversation with one of the officers who stated they’d been closely monitoring the steady rise in gang activity in my mom’s neighborhood.

But, I’m not going to try to talk my mom into moving to a “safer” neighborhood – she values her independence and my older sister and I have had those conversations before and we know she’s happy where she is.

But, I’ll admit, my motives for wanting her to stay are also somewhat selfish. A big reason why I wouldn’t want my mom to move is that I don’t want to lose a great next door neighbor.

For the past three years my family and I have lived in the same neighborhood where I grew up. We own the house next door to mom, the house built by Norm Hastings, who was my Little League Baseball coach when I was in the fourth grade. There were five kids in the Hastings family and Norm added a second story to the house to accommodate his large clan, which makes it a great fit for our four kids.

Rare is the weekend night that we don’t have at least one and often two extra kids spending the night, testing their skills on Guitar Hero or Rock Band into the early morning hours or working on a script for a new video to upload to YouTube.

I like the fact that kids like to come to our house. When you live in a rough neighborhood, it’s important to have places to go that are safe – and fun.

But, regardless of where you live, there are choices to be made. I can’t tell you how many times people who live in more affluent, often gated communities, have confessed to me that they worry that they’re raising their kids in a cocoon – an artificial world of homogeneity and Stepford-esque conformity.

I tell them they should be concerned because not only is such an environment out of step with reality today, it will be even more of an aberration by the time our children reach our age.

By the year 2015, white people like me will no longer be in the majority in the State of Texas. By the middle of this century, that will be true of the entire U.S. population. Before the middle of the third decade of this century, the economy of China will be larger than that of the U.S. There are already more internet users in China than in the U.S.

The Christian Church will continue to shrink in Europe and North America while at the same time continuing its exponential growth in Africa, Latin America and Asia. The face and flavor of World Christianity is going to change in dramatic ways that will expose the ethnocentric biases that have too often been taken for granted – but had little or nothing to do with the Gospel.

Oh the times, they are a changin – and if Jesus were here today (physically), I just don’t think he’d be trying to run away from these realities. I don’t think he’d be very interested in churches that are little more than lifestyle enclaves – regardless of how big they are. I don’t believe that he would be impressed by a church or ministry that grew by taking the path of least resistance, or that could only measure its growth in numbers of bodies and the size of its budget.

We are moving into a time in history when the long overlooked - the last - will truly be first – and those who have been first for so long will be moving further down the line.

And if the Church of Jesus Christ doesn’t repent and truly become the new humanity that God intended it to be, where faith in Christ Jesus is what makes each of you equal with each other, whether you are a Jew or a Greek, a slave or a free person, a man or a woman (Galatians 3:28 CEV), then I do not believe that the ultimate outcome of such a demographic shift will be achieved with justice for everyone involved.

The Church’s obedience to its calling to be a house of prayer for all people will determine the course of history. We have gone down the path of comfort and conformity toward Babel, but God is calling us to the difficulty and diversity of Pentecost.

If we will take the road less traveled, it will make all the difference.

4 Responses to Back Where I Started

  1. Will B

    Hey Tim-
    Thanks again for your incredible support of our mission experience in San Antonio. Our whole team is grateful for your warm hospitality. I am especially blessed by your genuine desire to bring people together for the sake of the kingdom. You are an awesome disciple of Christ and I’m excited about all that God has in store for Corriente Ministries and the wonderful city of San Antonio!
    Blessings brother,
    Will =)

  2. Tim Adams

    Will - it’s great to hear from you. Kristin sent me some pictures and they’ll be up on the blog soon. Looking forward to more opportunities to serve together in the future.

    Tim Adams

  3. Chip Johnson

    Tim,

    You let your kids listen to rock music, and produce YouTube videos??!! What kind of Christian are you??!! Just kidding:)

    I think of you and your family often because you are among the few who “walk the walk” as well as you “talk the talk.” However, another one of these unique Christians (his initials are L.D.) taught our Sunday School lesson yesterday, and I thought you would be interested in a comment that resulted from that lesson. It covered the first nine verses of Joshua in which the Israelites (and, in turn, today’s Christians) are commanded by God to be “strong and very courageous” and not to be “afraid and discouraged” because “the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” L.D. being L.D., could not resist the opportunity to present the class with some challenges as a result of the insights discerned from the Word. One of which was that a change in leadership (i.e., Moses to Joshua) always results in a change in goals, methodology, and priorities, etc. Obviously, this idea can be applied to a change in church leadership as well. So the challenge was for church members to embrace the changes resulting from the call of a new pastor, and resist the temptation to resist such change.

    Now here is the comment that I think you will find intriguing. One of the class members noted that all she’d been reading about and hearing about regarding the search for a new pastor was a list of things that church members required of that pastoral candidate that would make them acceptable to the membership. Then she made this statement, “We’ve got it all wrong. It isn’t about us. It’s about what God wants to do with us and through this church.” Amen.

    Only with this attitude will The Church be able to meet all the needs resulting from those changes that are ahead of it, some of which you mention in your blog. Obviously you recognize these needs. In terms of how we address both the Great Commandment and the Great Commission, what “was good enough for my Mother” will not remain “good enough for me” or my children, or their children, or their children …

    Take care my friend,
    Chip

  4. Ed in Florida

    Tim, would you consent to giving your feedback to a few questions/comment to an internet email group that I belong to? We’re just an informal group of politically conscious christian believers. We’ve been commenting and questioning on this subject of politics and christianity for a while by email and it would be a blessing to hear your direct opinion. We promise not to take up your time more than the few minutes it would take to comment at your leisure and convenience by email to an handful of questions by our group. And of course we would forward those comments to many others who also get the opportunity to find your website. If you are so inclined please respond to:
    epfs@aol.com.

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